ALL MALES WHO ENTER FEMALE SPACES ARE PREDATORS, SO STOP GASLIGHTING WOMEN ABOUT OUR SAFETY

DISCLAIMER:  I am a left-of-centre agnostic who hates Donald Trump and would never vote for a politician who supported abortion bans, let alone the countless other minority groups Trump launches lateral violence against. I also believe Donald Trump is the WRONG politician to walk-back trans-rights, because of his lack of compassion for people who have true dysphoria. I am not transphobic. I am a supporter of women and girls, and a critic of the trans-activism that seeks to erase women and erode our sex-based rights.

Jeffrey Marsh is non-binary. He may be famous, but there are more and more men joining the ranks of non-binary and sporting beards with lipstick, then entering spaces where women are undressing, many of whom feel vulnerable when naked in front of strange men.

There are no “transwomen,” or “transmen,” because it is impossible to “transition” from one sex to another. This highly charged statement is bound to make a lot of folks angry enough to hunt me down and beat me, imprison me, get me fired from my job, get me cancelled with my friends and even my own family. Some will be brazen enough to issue a death sentence against me, as we have often seen the #punch #choke #rape and #kill TERFS hashtags.

In reality, there are people who have dysphoria, which is a treatable but real condition, and the rest are just consuming gender ideology for bragging rights about how special, fragile and high-maintenance they are.

For the sake of this article and other blog posts, I will not be using magical terms that have zero basis in reality. Men are men and women are women.

And all men who enter private spaces that were traditionally reserved for females are predators.

Let’s unpack why:

#1. NOT ALL WOMEN CONSENT TO MALES ENTERING OUR PRIVATE SPACES

When men refuse to take NO for an answer, we call it a violation, a trespass, or predatory behavior. So when men who identify as women walk into the women's washroom, pool shower, rape shelter, female nude spa, etc, they are well aware of the many women in that space who are not comfortable with their presence. Men know that a lot of women actually feel triggered, traumatized and unsafe because they have endured domestic violence and rape at the hands of men. BUT THEY ENTER OUR SPACES ANYWAY. They refuse to take NO for an answer. They refuse to honour the trauma of a female rape survivor who cannot fathom to be in an enclosed space with a strange man. They believe their feelings and rights are more important than we lowly women, and they have public support from so-called progressive folks to condemn traumatized rape survivors by calling us TERFS and bigots. Our progressive culture believes in shaming and re-traumatizing female rape victims because men have commanded it. And even the so-called progressives refuse to call this misogyny, because they blindly support patriarchy.

#2. I DO NOT NEED TO SEE YOUR GENITALS TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE A MAN

Unless you are Blair White and have afforded yourself the dozens of feminizing surgeries required to pull-off being an undetected male in a female dress, I can tell you're a man. Wolves cannot dress up like sheep, and men cannot pull-off being female with an adams apple, straight hips, deep voice, and general largess. If you pass? Go ahead and use the women's washroom, But if you do not pass? You need to start advocating for your own space, and in the meantime, go back to the men's room that you safely used for your ENTIRE LIFE from birth until adulthood.

CHECK OUT THIS DISTURBING CARTOON, WHICH HAS BEEN APPLAUDED BY THE MEDIA AND SO-CALLED PROGRESSIVE PUBLIC:

This cartoonist uses black women to shame the white women for not being inclusive of men who identify as women. This is sexist, prejudiced and disturbing. This is a prime example of the kind of gaslighting women are dealing with:

• Both women agree that the person entering the women's facility is a man who identifies as a woman, otherwise the conversation would be framed around "how do you know they are trans?" This shows that even the creators of this cartoon freely admit that men who self-identify as women are visible to women and that we do not need to see their genitals to know their sex.

  
  

• The blond woman's response that "it's just weird" is a blatant disregard of every single argument female rape survivors have used to clarify why women do not want to share their bathrooms with men who self-identify as female.

  
  

• The coloured woman responds with the typical virtue-signalling being used to shame genuine concerns by women and especially female rape survivors, because she accuses the blond of feeling uncomfortable, instead of honouring the fact that she feels unsafe.

  
  

• No means no. Does a woman have to survive rape to understand the risks of being in vulnerable spaces with strange men? Plenty of predators enter spaces, where once established, they attack. They aren't going to attack a woman on the way into the bathroom - they will be waiting inside one of the stalls. This HAS happened, and will continue to happen with increased frequency since we have given all predators a green light to enter any space they self-identify into.

  
  

• The coloured woman shames the white woman for having basic female instincts about visible males, but accommodates men who self-identify as women for having fear of men. Since when have stats shown that men don't rape and kill women at a rampant rate? Why would ANY woman be shamed for being afraid of men? Even if that man dresses like a woman and calls himself a woman, to many rape survivors, he is a potential rapist because he is a strange man with a dick in a space that is supposed to be reserved for women. The fact that he doesn't regard women's consent is a red flag for a lot of us.

  
  

• This politicized cartoon is an affront to black women who do not agree with trans-ideoogy, and uses an old, outworn sexist stereotype about blond women to make them appear stupid, naive and uneducated. Women aren't allowed to feel unsafe around strange males - only men are, right?

  
  

This is Sophie Labelle. Self-described as a transgender cartoonist from Canada, I was curious to see if she is black, latina, or a minority of colour. It appears that Sophie is white. Marie-Ortie is French, though I could not find a profile photo to verify whether or not she is coloured.

Why does this matter?

If both of these people are indeed white, they have zero business using women of colour for their political agenda. There are plenty of black women who are furious about gender ideology and this affront to womens rights, including Kristin Zebrowski, Chief of Staff for WDI. Please read the Black Women's Caucus Statement Against Gender Ideology.

#3. HOW MANY MEN HAVE BEEN RAPED IN BATHROOMS?

Women who resist gender neutral bathrooms are continually told that women and girls are never attacked in bathrooms, so we don't need to worry about getting raped in a gender neutral bathroom. A light google search will actually provide interesting statistics on men who identify as women and the violence they endure at the hands of men. It doesn't happen in bathrooms. In fact - it's most common for them to be killed by men when they are sex workers. This is true for men and women - but among the males who present as females, the most common fatalities are correlated with sex work.

Women are murdered by men for all kinds of reasons, including divorce, child custody battles, jealousy, basic rage, and for being vulnerable as sex workers. Women are also raped by disturbed incels who will prey on any situation where a woman or young girl is vulnerable - and this makes us more prone to risk in vulnerable spaces. (Boy children are also in this category, and really should be accompanied in public bathrooms when they are young).

The fact that women are killed for a wider variety of reasons in more varied circumstances and situations than female-identified males means women have far more reason to demand a female-only bathroom and pool shower than a man who identifie as a woman, who is almost never going to be raped or killed in a men's bathroom or pool changeroom.

#4. A PUBLIC BATHROOM IS NOT THE SAME AS A SINGLE STALL AIRPORT BATHROOM OR THE BATHROOM IN YOUR HOME.

Duh. I cannot believe the friends I have who share these ridiculous memes. How unhinged has our world become, that so-called progressives don't understand the difference between a single-stall washroom and a public facitility that has several stalls in it? Public bathrooms with flimsy stalls make great locations for tense scenes in thrillers for a reason!

Then there's also this other little thing I use, called a period cup. As I am now perimenopausal, sometimes my flow is really heavy and I fill my period cup too quickly to schedule a change for home. This means I may have to use the public sink to wash my period cup. That is embarassing and uncomfortable to do in front of other WOMEN, but to have to do that in front of males who have never menstruated is just beyond creepy. The fact is, blokes like Jeffrey Marsh and Dylan Mulvaney have promoted the idea that males with period fetishes should embrace the tampon and offer them to women like me, as though I will EVER feel comfortable with this. A lot of women are private, and don't even get me started on young girls who have only just begun menstruating.

Men do not belong in women's private spaces for way too many reasons to even mention here.

#5. STOP SAYING WOMEN ARE USUALLY RAPED BY SOMEONE THEY KNOW TO JUSTIFY ALLOWING STRANGE MEN IN

I was raped by a stranger in a public setting when I was walking home. Naturally, I feel tense in enclosed spaces, which elevates to panic mode when strange men are around. But the most common argument I hear from so-called progressives, is that women are almost always attacked by family members, or someone they know - which means the bathroom, pool shower and nude spa are safe, even with the presence of men. This is such a tone-deaf fallacy!!

If a rape survivor knows she isn’t even safe with her own friends and family, how the hell do you expect her to feel safe around strange men? Women who are dehumanized by their own loved ones are alraedy the most vulnerable women among our society. They are the most at risk for more abuse, especially when they don’t have protections from predators.

FACT: There has been a noteworthy rise of recording devices planted in women's bathrooms and changerooms over the past few years, which proves that voyuers and creeps ABSOLUTELY PREY ON WOMEN in our public spaces. Men have always spied on women, including strange women. Why on earth have we opened the doors to let all of them enter our spaces under the guise of being a man who identifies as a women? Just look up how many men who rape and kill women, "come out" as "trans," after being imprisoned.....

#6. STOP USING THE PAN-AMERICAN 2-SPIRITED MANTRA TO JUSTIFY THE ERASURE OF WOMEN'S RIGHTS

I am not indigenous and could care less if you identify as 2-spirited. That does not give you automatic access to my personal space, my vulnerabilities or my privacy.

And let's be honest - using the concept of 2-spirited to justify allowing men into women's bathrooms is silly because we do not live in an egalitarian society anymore, nor are our communities small enough that any of us knows everyone who uses our public bathrooms. Our public bathrooms and pool changerooms are full of strangers, which is why state societies understood the need for sex-select spaces to keep women and girls safe, and to offer us comfortable access to public life. So just stop with the arguments about 2-spirited concepts and indigenous cultures being superior. Indigenous women were raped before the Christians arrived and I am quite tired of being told that we must romanticize that which was far from romantic for ANY reason, but especially not so MEN can assume MORE rights and privileges at my expense.

I have my suspicions that 2-spirited people with penises ever TRIED to enter the red-houses, where women gathered during menstruation. I highly doubt they were given access to women's sweat lodges either. In many cultures, even married women and men do not sweat together - so there was still a respect for biology and gender roles in indigenous cultures. (I will be writing more about this as well, since gender is a social construct that should never be tied to our sex, which cancels the need for non-binary/2-spirited in general).

#8. STOP EQUATING GENDER CRITICAL FEMINISM WITH RACISM

One of the most popular arguments against white women excluding men who self-identify as women, is that white women used to exclude black women from our spaces. Women denying men access to our safe spaces is actually compared to racism - which totally disregards the growing rise of dissent by black women who are also angry about the erasure of women's sex-based rights. It is SEXIST and MISOGYNIST to force any woman to submit to impositions by males that make her feel unsafe and uncomfortable.

But let's turn this around, for the sake of argument. White women had no right to exclude black women, because no case could be made that black women had ever caused harm to white women. In fact, the opposite was true. BUT THIS ARGUMENT COMPARES MEN (EVEN WHITE MEN) TO BLACK WOMEN WHO ENDURED (AND STILL ENDURE) RAMPANT RACISM. Comparing the plight and oppression of black women to any man who identifies as a woman is dismissive to the real racism black women endured. They didn't get to make demands and have their wishes appeased - they had to fight against patriarchy AND racism to attain their basic human rights, and they still do not enjoy equality. To compare any man to what black women hav endured and continue to go through is offensive and racist.

And here's another position to be considered: would you agree that black women should have the right to exclude white women from their spaces? That black women should have the right to gather without having to accommodate white fragility? Cause I support that.

The oppressed should ALWAYS have the right to gather on their own terms. Black, indigenous, Asian, Latino - all oppressed minorities SHOULD have the right to exclude white people, based on having respite from white control, white demands and the white guilt that manifests itself as white fragility. Minority groups have shared experiences with one another that is difficult for white people to comprehend, due to our privilege.

And by the same token, WOMEN should always reserve the right to exclude men. All men. That includes men who think they know what it "feels" like to be female, though they do not have shared experiences with the female sex . We should not have to justify why, or make excuses as to why men are not welcome in women's sex-based rights.

AND IF YOU REALLY THINK THIS IS A WHITE-WOMAN'S COMPLAINT AND MISSED THE LINK ABOVE, Please read the Black Women's Caucus Statement Again

No - they are men who self-identify as women.

AND FOR THE LAST TIME, PLEASE STOP TELLING ME THAT TRANSWOMEN ARE WOMEN - BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT.

Why do you think they are so comfortable making demands on women, while women jump to accommodate them without asking questions first?

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