5 WAYS GENDER IDEOLOGY HURTS WOMEN & CHILDREN

DISCLAIMER:  I am a left-of-centre agnostic who hates Donald Trump and would never vote for a politician who supported abortion bans, let alone the countless other minority groups Trump launches lateral violence against. I also believe Donald Trump is the WRONG politician to walk-back trans-rights, because of his lack of compassion for people who have true dysphoria. I am not transphobic. I am a supporter of women and girls, and a critic of the trans-activism that seeks to erase women and erode our sex-based rights.

Jonathan Yaniv aka Jessica Yaniv aka Jessica Simpson

I am always shocked by the lack of analysis among self-proclaimed progressives who believe themselves so savvy when claiming that gender ideology doesn't hurt women. There are myriads of ways this intrusive ideology harms females, but lets focus on five significant examples, to start:

#1. FEMALE-IDENTIFIED MAN TARGETS MINORITY FEMALE SALON OWNERS IN BC

Jonathan Yaniv is a man who identifies as a woman. He rose to fame after intimidating well over a dozen women because they refused to wax his balls. These were modest women from conservative, religious backgrounds, the bulk of whom were mostly Sikh and Hindu. Almost none of them spoke English fluently, nor did they understand what their rights were, when Jonathan sued them. Some of them settled out of court, paying money to this bonafide predator, though they had done nothing wrong. Articles indicate there were more than 13 women involved in this case, many of whom closed their salons despite winning their court cases, because it left them feeling afraid in their own homes, where they ran their private salons. Many of these women had young children at home. The judicial system alleged Yaniv's motives were racist because he specifically targeted Indian women.

EXAMPLE 1:

1 Man destroys the careers of several minority women

1 Man causes financial hardship for the women who settled out of court due to fear

1 Man intimidates several minority women into being afraid in their own homes

Desiree Anderson, AKA Cody D'Entremont

#2. 3 FEMALE-IDENTIFIED MEN RAPE 5 WOMEN IN ONTARIO RAPE SHELTERS

Defenders of trans-ideology will claim that transwomen never rape women. All transwomen are sweet little women who just want somewhere safe to pee. This is an ignorant and naive romanticism that has already been debunked. In fact, 3 transwomen in Ontario were admitted to rape shelters where 1 raped 3 women, and the other 2 each raped one woman. The media didn't initially report this accurately, because there was a desire among the journalists to describe them as men who "faked" being trans. But look - you cannot have this both ways, after lobbying for the self-ID policies that Canada passed with Bill C-16. Either men can self-identify as female, or they can't. Those 3 men dressed in womens clothing and identified themselves as women, therefore they are women UNDER CANADIAN LAW. If you really think they are "fake" female-identified men, maybe you can join feminists in lobbying our government to shelve self-ID policies that allow any and every predator to put on a dress with heels and lipstick so he can get into female rape shelters where he has easy prey.

If your reaction to this news is to say "it was only 5 women," then my question for you is this: HOW MANY WOMEN MUST BE RAPED before you will make our safety a priority? If 5 isn't enough, is 10? How about 20? 100? 1000? Just how many women will you sentence to be raped IN RAPE SHELTERS, so men can self-identify their way into our identity and sex-based rights? (For the record, one was too many for me.)

These cases are only from one province. There are dozens of documented cases, but sadly, most media outlets refuse honest reporting on this issue.

EXAMPLE 2:

3 Men raped 5 women in rape shelters, where women are supposed to have respite from violence and sexual abuse. Our public ignored this, or justified it.

3 Men re-traumatized 5 women who were trying to heal. It is already very challenging for women to flee situations of domestic violence and even harder now that victims know they do not have safe sanctuaries that are absent of strange males.

Convicted Rapist Isla Bryson was once Adam Graham

#3. FEMALE-IDENTIFIED MEN ARE SKEWING STATISTICS ABOUT WOMEN

Most of us agree on why census counts are important, and why data has always been collected by group, to offer us a general picture of how each group is faring. Statistics on violence are a major factor for anyone who cares about femicide and gender-based violence. In so-called progressive countries, the police, medical doctors, journalists and everyone else are bound by our laws, and since self-ID has given everyone the right to determine their own "category," many men who commit violent crimes are being reported as women.

Many will say "but the trans community is too small to change statistics on violence committed by women," unless you pay attention to what is happening within our prison system. Pedophiles and sex abusers are being given gender affirming care, and they are being transferred into women's prisons. They are now women. When they re-offend, their crimes must be reported as having been committed by a woman. Again - we cannot make laws and then alter them based on someones behavior. If a man can call himself a woman after he has raped a child, he can rape a child as a woman. And there are a LOT of male prisoners, mostly sex-offenders, who claim to be women and not only apply to be transferred into female prisons, but are now free to re-offend as women, have their crimes reported in the female data-base, and suddenly a crazy trend is verified by a spike of violent crimes committed by women, against women and children.

Pictured above, Isla Bryson was the first transwoman to be convicted of raping women in Scotland - a politically charged move to show tolerance and inclusivity for transwomen within the legal system. Women are now burdened statistically with this rape conviction, for a violent crime perpetrated by a man.

EXAMPLE 3:

Predators and pedophiles who harm women and children can re-offend as women, and skew the data on violent crime statistics for crimes commited by women.

Women are now shouldering the burden of male violence.

Lia Thomas was permitted to cheat women of their hard-fought-for placements

#4. WOMEN DESERVE OUR SPORTS SCHOLARSHIPS AND AWARDS

Women haven't been playing professional sports for long - as with all of our other rights, we had to fight for the right to partake in the Olympics and other sports venues. Today, the public continues to witch-hunt Reiley Gaines, while applauding Lia Thomas. I have my own issues with the fact that Gaines is a Trump supporter, which makes me question her own brand of feminism, but nothing will ever make me side with the so-called progressives who defend and applaud a man who magically transforms himself into both a woman and a gold medal winner. AT THE EXPENSE OF FEMALE ATHLETES.

There was the famous case of two female highschool athletes who were vocal about a male athlete who was mediocre on the male team, but among the females rose to top position, and received scholarship and grant money for university. This meant a deserving female athlete, who was TOP in her field, lost her opportunity to a cheat.

Males have larger bone mass, larger lungs, larger hearts and more muscle mass than females. Debate may continue around this issue, but much evidence has already proven that men still maintain a physical advantage over female athletes after taking hormone blockers.

While we're having this conversation - let's talk about all of the men around the world who are winning "Woman of the Year" awards, alongside "Miss Universe" and a whole ton of sexist competitions I don't even support - BUT there is still the principle of men taking positions away from women who fought hard to partake in such competitions, to be deserving of scholarships and opportunities that were created for women to mitigate the harms of patriarchy and the uneven playing field women still have to tolerate. We haven't even fixed pay equity, but now we are giving women's opportunities to men who "feel" like women.

EXAMPLE 4:

Men are taking positions and awards away from women who have fought hard to elevate themselves to the best of our sex.

Men are taking MONEY away from women who have earned scholarships

#5. FEMALE RAPE SURVIVORS ARE BEING ERASED FROM PUBLIC LIFE

Let's face it - rape is different for everyone. The usual argument of so-called progressives is to use data about familial rape, to denounce any resistance to males having access to sex-select spaces because they do not pose any risk. Only family members and family friends rape women and children. But this is so completely tone-deaf for rape victims who have been traumatized.

Even if a rape victim was raped by a family member, she is allowed to endure fear in enclosed spaces with ANY male person. This female knows she isn't safe with her own family member, so why should she feel safe with a stranger? If her own flesh and blood will harm her, ANYONE will harm her.

The lengths some will go to, in order to dismiss legitimate concerns of rape survivors is nothing but short of disgusting and cruel. One could even describe it as draconian, to tell a rape victim that she needs to just "get over it," because a man who "feels" like a woman, is scared of men. (Read that again and again, until it sinks in: Women have every right to be afraid of men, if men are afraid of men.)

Many women, myself included, have felt intense panic since gender neutral changerooms and bathrooms have been forced down our throats. I will follow this article up with an in-depth piece about the women who gaslight me about my trauma, to diminish, silence and shame me for it, instead of showing me the same compassion they show for men who identify as women.

In any case, like many women, I cannot bring myself to go into pool changerooms anymore due to how many incidents have taken place, been poorly reported, but proven that men who identify as women, have the upper hand over women. Typical misogyny - nothing new here.

EXAMPLE 5:

Female rape survivors are being erased from public life because of our trauma and fear, due to the so-called progressives who prefer to accommodate female-identified males who claim to be afraid of men.

Men's Rights must always come First.

Cause women just don't matter.

WHY CAN'T WE RESOLVE THIS?

I am an unusual feminist because I strongly support advocating for trans-exclusive spaces, where trans people can have their own safe spaces away from men AND women. The problem?

So-called progressives refuse to listen to the women who have positioned ourselves in opposition to all of this, and so it has become a misogynist war to silence women like me, to force me to submit in silence or be burned at the stake. Because advocating for female-identified males to have their own spaces means they aren't real women, and well - we just can't have men with hurt feelings. My body, your choice?

The only reason this will never be fixed is because those of use who oppose this will die on this hill, but women who gate-keep for patriarchy will continue to center their "feminism" around male fragility because they haven't yet realized that being nice is harmful, weak and unnecessary. IF WOMEN HAVE NO REASON TO BE AFRAID OF FEMALE-IDENTIFIED MEN UNDRESSING IN FRONT OF LITTLE GIRLS, FEMALE-IDENTIFIED MEN HAVE NO REASON TO BE AFRAID OF MEN. STOP USING FEMALE CHILDREN AS HUMAN SHEILDS FOR MALE FRAGILITY.

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